Peer pressure tsis yog txhua yam phem. Qee zaum, nws tuaj yeem ua tau zoo. Txawm hais tias peb coob leej paub qhov tsis zoo ntawm cov phooj ywg siab, tej zaum koj yuav xav tsis thoob thaum hnov txog qhov zoo. Kawm seb qhov sib txawv ntawm cov phooj ywg sib txawv tuaj yeem cuam tshuam rau koj tus hluas hauv tsev kawm ntawv thiab tsev neeg lub neej.
Neegative Effects of Peer Pressure
Peer pressure yog ib qho kev txhawj xeeb tas li hauv niam txiv lub siab. Koj pom nws hauv TV. Tej zaum, koj tau nyeem ib tsab xov xwm hais txog qhov xwm txheej tshiab tom tsev kawm ntawv. Tab sis puas yog phooj ywg siab phem tag nrho? Raws li Carrie Silver-Stock, tus kws saib xyuas kev noj qab haus huv uas muaj ntawv tso cai, tus tsim ntawm Cov Ntxhais Nrog Npau Suav thiab tus kws sau phau ntawv Secrets Girls Keep: What Girls Hide (& Vim Li Cas) thiab Yuav Ua Li Cas Thiaj Ua Rau Kev Nyuaj Siab Ntawm Kev Nyuaj Siab, nws tuaj yeem ua tau. Carrie tau hais tias, "kev tsis zoo ntawm cov phooj ywg tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev cuam tshuam rau tus kheej, cuam tshuam rau kev txiav txim siab meej, thiab ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab ntau ntxiv. Thaum qhov phem tshaj plaws, nws tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev phom sij lossis txaus ntshai uas tuaj yeem ua rau tuag taus, xws li tsheb sib tsoo nrog cawv., xwm txheej, tshuaj ntau dhau, thiab ntau dua."
Negative School Impact
Tsis yog nws tuaj yeem ua rau tus cwj pwm txaus ntshai xwb, tab sis qhov tsis zoo ntawm cov phooj ywg tuaj yeem ua teeb meem hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Carrie taw qhia qhov tsis zoo ntawm cov phooj ywg tuaj yeem:
- Nyob hauv tsev kawm ntawv qis
- Tau qhab nia
- Tshwj xeeb lub peev xwm mus kawm ntawv qib siab
- Hloov pab pawg phooj ywg
Family Problems
Cov phooj ywg siab tuaj yeem cuam tshuam rau tsev neeg. Hauv tsev neeg, Carrie hais tias "tsis zoo rau cov phooj ywg siab yuav:"
- Nyob deb ntawm tsev neeg
- Tso sijhawm tsawg nyob hauv tsev
- Ntseeg tus cwj pwm tsis zoo/tus cwj pwm
- Hurt communication
Cov teebmeem zoo ntawm Kev Sib Raug Zoo
Thaum cov phooj ywg tsis zoo siab tau txais xov xwm ntau dua, nws tsis yog tib tus phooj ywg siab uas cuam tshuam rau cov hluas. Cov tub ntxhais hluas uas nyob ib puag ncig lawv tus kheej nrog cov neeg zoo tuaj yeem pom qhov cuam tshuam. "Thaum cov hluas nyob ib puag ncig lawv tus kheej nrog cov neeg txiav txim siab zoo thiab koom nrog cov haujlwm zoo thiab kev xaiv, qhov no feem ntau ua rau cov hluas xav kom zoo dua. tuaj yeem txhim kho tus tub ntxhais kawm qib lossis txawm tias cov phooj ywg, "raws li qhia los ntawm Carrie.
Txoj kev kawm tau zoo
Ntau yam zoo li cov uas nyob ib puag ncig lawv tus kheej nrog kev cuam tshuam tsis zoo, yog tias koj nyob ib puag ncig koj tus kheej nrog kev cuam tshuam zoo, koj tuaj yeem pom qhov hloov pauv hauv koj txoj kev kawm. Carrie sau tseg tias cov hluas tuaj yeem pom:
- Txhim kho qib
- Txhim kho kev ntseeg siab
- Tsim sim ntau yam lossis koom nrog hauv tsev kawm ntawv
Happier Families
Tsev neeg lub neej kuj tuaj yeem txhim kho nrog kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov phooj ywg. Raws li Carrie, cov phooj ywg zoo hauv cov menyuam yaus lub neej yuav:
- Kev sib raug zoo
- Tso sijhawm ntau nrog tsev neeg
- Txhim kho kev sib txuas lus
Peer Pressure and Gender
Poj niam los txiv neej tuaj yeem ua rau qee qhov sib txawv. Piv txwv li, nws yuav cuam tshuam li cas cov hluas raug cuam tshuam los ntawm kev sib raug zoo nrog phooj ywg. Carrie piav qhia tias "cov tub hluas thiab cov ntxhais yuav hnov txog ntau yam sib txawv. Piv txwv li, ib tug txiv leej tub yuav raug quab yuam kom sib tw nws lub tsheb, los yog ib tug ntxhais yuav xav tias yuav hnav ib yam dab tsi." Txawm li cas los xij, cov phooj ywg siab kuj yog universal. Carrie tau hais tias, "cov teebmeem zoo sib xws rau cov tub thiab ntxhais. Nws yog qhov nyuaj rau kev ntxhov siab vim txhua tus xav kom haum thiab nyiam, cov tub thiab ntxhais. Ob leeg tuaj yeem muaj qhov tsis zoo thiab qhov zoo nyob ntawm seb lawv xaiv ua li cas."
Peer Pressure From Friends
Ib qho ntawm feem ntau qhov chaw ntawm cov phooj ywg siab los ntawm cov phooj ywg. Txoj kev uas qhov no cuam tshuam rau cov hluas tuaj yeem sib txawv. "Cov hluas yuav zoo siab vim muaj pab pawg saib xyuas lawv, lossis lawv yuav txhawj xeeb lossis tsis meej pem txog yuav ua li cas lawv cov phooj ywg zoo siab thaum xaiv qhov sib txawv. Cov hluas kuj xav tias lawv yuav tsis haum lossis nyiam yog tias lawv tsis ua Tsis txhob mus nrog cov neeg coob coob. Cov hluas kuj tuaj yeem xav tias tsis muaj kev nyab xeeb txog lawv txoj kev ntseeg lossis cov tswv yim, "hais Carrie.
Nyob hauv
Muab rau cov phooj ywg siab tuaj yeem ua rau "qee tus xav tias muaj kev zoo siab los ntawm kev haum rau qee qhov chaw." Txawm li cas los xij, Carrie taw qhia tias "feem ntau ntawm lawv thaum kawg hnov mob lossis ua txhaum ntawm kev ua rau cov phooj ywg siab. Nws pib ua rau lawv txoj kev hwm tus kheej, thiab nws tsis zoo ib txwm tawm tsam qhov lawv ntseeg."
Txhob Cia Siab
Kev tawm tsam cov phooj ywg siab tuaj yeem nyuaj rau cov hluas thiab. Txawm li cas los xij, Carrie hais tias, "nws feem ntau tsis yooj yim." Nws mus taw tes seb nws yuav cuam tshuam li cas rau cov hluas. "Qee zaus, cov phooj ywg yuav muaj kev hwm rau tus hluas thiab cia nws nyob ib leeg. Lwm lub sij hawm, nws tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab heev, thiab cov phooj ywg tseem tuaj yeem ua rau tus hluas. cov tshuaj tiv thaiv, nws thiaj li yuav txhawb kev ntseeg tus kheej rau nws qib siab tshaj plaws."
Tshwmsim ntawm Peer Siab
Thaum ib tug hluas muab rau qhov tsis zoo ntawm cov phooj ywg nws tuaj yeem ua rau muaj qhov tshwm sim zoo nkauj heev. "Thaum twg cov hluas tsis mloog lawv qhov kev xav thiab kev qhia sab hauv thiab tsuas yog ua raws li lawv cov phooj ywg hais," qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau muaj teeb meem piav qhia Carrie. Nws hais ntxiv tias, “qhov no yog lub cim ceeb toom cov tub ntxhais hluas yuav tsum tau saib xyuas, thiab los ntawm qhov no cov txiaj ntsig tsuas yog zuj zus. Lwm qhov qhia tau hais tias tej yam tsis muaj kev tswj hwm yog tias tus menyuam yaus ua tej yam tsis raug cai lossis raug teeb meem hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Lwm qhov kev tshwm sim hnyav tuaj yeem suav nrog:
- Kev sib raug zoo nrog niam txiv
- Tawm
- Kev haus cawv los yog siv yeeb tshuaj
- Tus neeg raug tsim txom
- Pob haus thiab tsav tsheb
- lub cev raug mob
- Pregnancy
- Kev noj qab haus huv (xws li kab mob sib deev)"
Long-Term Effects of Peer Pressure
Tsis tsuas yog cov phooj ywg siab tuaj yeem cuam tshuam rau lub sijhawm luv luv rau tsev kawm ntawv thiab tsev neeg, tab sis qhov tshwm sim ntawm cov teebmeem no tuaj yeem ua rau lub sijhawm ntev. Piv txwv li, cov tub ntxhais hluas yuav muaj lub sij hawm nyuaj raws li ib tug neeg laus tau txais txoj haujlwm vim kev kawm tsis zoo. Kev sib raug zoo nrog cov neeg hauv tsev neeg tuaj yeem rhuav tshem. Tsis tas li ntawd, kev txheeb cais ntawm cov phooj ywg siab los ntawm Lub Koom Haum rau Kev Tshawb Fawb Txog Kev Txhim Kho Menyuam Yaus pom tias cov tub ntxhais hluas uas tsis tsim kev ywj pheej thiab kev ywj pheej los ntawm cov phooj ywg muaj kev pheej hmoo siab dua rau kev siv yeeb tshuaj thiab cawv nrog rau tus cwj pwm tsis raug cai tom qab 10 xyoo.
Lub cev muaj zog ntawm kev sib raug zoo siab
Cov phooj ywg siab tuaj yeem ua rau lub cev cuam tshuam rau cov hluas. Thaum muaj kev cuam tshuam lub cev ntawm cov phooj ywg zoo, zoo li kev hwm tus kheej thiab kev noj qab haus huv zoo dua. Cov teebmeem ntawm kev tsis zoo ntawm cov phooj ywg siab yog saib nyob rau hauv ntau qhov tob. Ntau qhov kev tshawb fawb tau pom tias qhov tsis zoo ntawm cov phooj ywg tuaj yeem ua rau:
- Insomnia
- Irritability
- Mood Change
- Kev nyuaj siab
- Ntshai
- Txoj kev noj qab haus huv
Cov Niam Txiv Pab Tau Li Cas
Yog tias koj paub tias koj tus menyuam muaj kev nyuaj siab nrog cov phooj ywg, muaj ob peb yam uas koj tuaj yeem ua tau los pab qhov xwm txheej. Carrie hais tias koj tuaj yeem:
- " Tsim ib qho chaw rau kev sib tham qhib - Tham nrog koj tus hluas txog yam uas tshwm sim hauv nws lub neej. Ua kom nws yog ob txoj kev, thiab koj tsis yog nyob rau hauv kev tawm tswv yim. Yog tias koj tus hluas tsis xav tham ntau npaum li koj ua, dai rau hauv. Cia li sim tham tsawg kawg 10 feeb ib hnub thiab tsim los ntawm qhov ntawd. "
- " Tus qauv coj tus cwj pwm - Cov niam txiv tej zaum yuav muaj cov xwm txheej zoo sib xws ntawm kev ua haujlwm uas lawv xav tias muaj kev ntxhov siab los ntawm lwm tus lossis qhov chaw uas lawv yuav tsum tau sawv. los nrog nws zoo."
- " Saib cov cim qhia ntawm kev hloov pauv - Yog tias koj pom muaj kev hloov pauv loj hauv qib kev ua si, phooj ywg, pw tsaug zog thiab noj mov, lossis haus, cov no yog cov chij liab thiab yuav tsum tsis txhob tsis quav ntsej."
- " Pab txhawb nqa - Ua ib tug hluas yog ib qho nyuaj, nyuaj rau juggle tsev kawm ntawv, phooj ywg, thiab cov phooj ywg sib sib zog nqus, cia li nco ntsoov qhov no nyob rau hauv lub siab thaum koj pab koj tus hluas. tsis txhais hais tias koj yuav tsum hloov koj cov cai lossis cov qauv. "
Peer Pressure isn't go
Cov tub ntxhais hluas cov phooj ywg siab tuaj yeem ua tau zoo lossis phem, nyob ntawm qhov kev xav ntawm cov hluas lawv tus kheej. Ib yam yog qhov tseeb, kev sib raug zoo ntawm pawg hnub nyoog no tsis yog yuav ploj mus, yog li nws yog qhov zoo tshaj kom tsis txhob quav ntsej txog cov teeb meem uas nyob ib puag ncig nws.
