Nrhiav cov lus qhia siv tau los qhia koj cov menyuam kom ntxuav lawv chav thiab ua ib feem ntawm lawv txoj haujlwm.
Thaum menyuam yaus chav huv si, nws tuaj yeem yog qhov chaw so kom so, ua homework, lossis ua si. Koj tuaj yeem qhia koj tus menyuam kom ntxuav lawv chav tsis muaj kev ntxhov siab; qhov tseeb, nws yooj yim dua li koj xav! Los ntawm muaj ob peb lub tswv yim tswv yim ntawm tes, nws ua tau tag nrho. Cov niam txiv tuaj yeem pab cov me nyuam kawm txog kev tu tsev thiab txhawb lawv lub luag haujlwm rau lawv qhov chaw. Muab cov kauj ruam meej thiab txhais cov kev cia siab tuaj yeem mus ntev hauv txoj haujlwm no yooj yim. Txhawm rau pib, tig mus rau phau ntawv qhia yooj yim ua raws li no.
Txhob Cia Lwm Tiam
Pib kev tu ncua ua ke los ntawm kev teeb tsa lawv chav pw nrog qhov chaw ntshiab rau khaub ncaws, khoom ua si, khau, thiab lwm yam. Koj xav nrhiav ib lub koom haum uas yuav ua haujlwm rau lawv.
Piv txwv li, yog tias koj muaj 3 mus rau 5 xyoos, cov ntawv sau nrog cov duab kos yuav zoo dua cov ntawv lo nrog cov lus. Koj kuj yuav tsum tau muab cov khoom tso rau hauv qhov chaw lawv tuaj yeem ncav cuag; Piv txwv li, kindergartener yuav muaj teeb meem dai khaub ncaws ntawm lub txee siab, yog li ua kom muaj kev sib haum xeeb. Ob peb lub tswv yim uas peb nyiam pab npaj chav me me (txawm tias nws yog chav pw me me) suav nrog:
- Siv cov thawv rau cov khoom ua si.
- Label txhua yam (daim ntawv lo yog pab tau rau cov me nyuam me).
- Ua kom txhua lub koom haum siv zog siv tau thiab siv tau yooj yim.
- Siv tub rau khaub ncaws.
Ib qho tseem ceeb ntawm kev npaj ua ntej yog cov me nyuam pib nrog cov slate huv si. Ib chav qias neeg tuaj yeem ua rau tus menyuam yaus huv si vim lawv xav tias nws yuav siv sijhawm ntev mus ua kom tiav. Txawm li cas los xij, koj kuj tsis xav mus hla nrog lub koom haum, ib yam nkaus. Ib tug me nyuam yaus yuav nyuaj rau cais tawm tag nrho lawv cov khoom ua si, yog li lub tsheb cov khoom ua si los yog cov menyuam roj hmab hauv yuav muaj txiaj ntsig ntau dua li lub koom haum tsim kho.
Thov qhia rau menyuam yaus
Thaum koj tau pab koj tus menyuam kom lawv chav nyob, qhov nyuaj ua tiav. Suab txawv, txoj cai? Tab sis qhov tseeb yog. Tam sim no nws yog txhua yam hais txog kev muab cov kev taw qhia uas yuav ua rau kev teeb tsa ib txwm ua rau tu lawv chav. Yooj yim yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws thaum nws los txog rau lawv txoj haujlwm tu. Muab nws tso rau hauv me me, tswj tau cov kauj ruam los pab cov me nyuam ua haujlwm.
Thaum teeb tsa ib txwm, nws tuaj yeem pab tau kom pom qhov pom. Tej zaum koj yuav xav siv daim ntawv qhia ua haujlwm, nyob ntawm lawv lub hnub nyoog. Koj tseem tuaj yeem muab lawv luam tawm ntawm cov kauj ruam sib txawv rau kev ntxuav lawv chav.
Kauj Ruam 1: Ncua thiab Ua Txaj
Tsuas muaj tej yam yees siv tau taug kev mus rau hauv koj tus menyuam chav thiab pom lawv lub txaj ua. Txij li qhov no yog ib txoj haujlwm me me uas tuaj yeem pab cov menyuam yaus xav tias lawv tau ua tiav ntau, nws yog qhov chaw zoo pib.
- Qhia kom lawv tso cov nplooj ntawv thiab kev nplij siab.
- Muab kev ua qauv qhia txog kev ntxiv cov hauv ncoo thiab qhov chaw ntim khoom, thiab lwm yam.
Step 2: Sort
Cov menyuam yaus feem ntau muaj kev saib xyuas luv luv. Koj tsis tuaj yeem cia siab tias lawv yuav siv sij hawm tu lawv chav txhua hnub. Nws tsuas yog tsis ua tau; tab sis 5-feeb kev yog.
- Cia menyuam teem sijhawm 5 feeb.
- Tshuaj pob tawb.
- Lawv yuav tsum mus ncig lawv chav thiab khaws txhua yam ntawm lawv hauv pem teb, rooj, rooj, thiab lwm yam, thiab muab cov khoom tso rau hauv cov pawg ntshiab uas siv cov pob tawb.
- Tsev pov tseg mus rau hauv lub thoob khib nyiab los yog muab pov tseg.
- Yog lawv ua tau ntxov, ua kom ntau ntau rau nws.
Kauj Ruam 3: Tso Tawm thiab Npaj
Tam sim no lawv tau ua cov pawg zoo ntawm tag nrho cov khoom cluttering lawv hauv pem teb los yog chav tsev, nws yooj yim muab pov tseg. Pib nrog ib pawg ntawm ib zaug (feem ntau lawv cov khaub ncaws), kom lawv tso txhua yam tseg siv lub koom haum uas koj tau tsim.
Kauj Ruam 4: Plua plav thiab cheb
Cov kauj ruam no tsis tas yuav tshwm sim txhua hnub, tab sis nws yog qhov zoo rau cov menyuam yaus ua tus cwj pwm. Yog li thaum xub thawj, koj yuav xav kom lawv so txhua yam kom tshem tawm cov plua plav thiab tom qab ntawd cheb. Tau kawg, qhov no yuav txawv raws hnub nyoog, tab sis koj yuav xav tsis thoob tias muaj pes tsawg tus menyuam muaj 3 xyoos nyiam khiav lub tshuab nqus tsev.
Create a Routine
Txoj kev niaj hnub yuav yog koj tus menyuam tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj plaws. Nws tso cai rau kev ntxuav ntawm lub sijhawm tshwj xeeb los ua tus cwj pwm. Teem lub sijhawm tu rau lawv uas ua haujlwm nrog lawv cov haujlwm txhua hnub. Piv txwv li, kev tu chav tsev tshwm sim txhua hnub tom qab tsev kawm ntawv. Qhov no ua rau nws yooj yim rau lawv; thaum lawv los tsev los ntawm tsev kawm ntawv txhua hnub, lawv paub tias lawv yuav tsum tau mus rau hauv thiab ntxuav lawv chav ua ntej saib tas luav lossis ua si. Tom qab ua tau zoo ib yam li ob peb lub hlis, kev tu lawv chav tom qab tsev kawm ntawv yog tus qauv.
Taug kev nrog lawv nyob
Cov me nyuam kawm los ntawm kev ua - koj tsis tuaj yeem muab lawv cov npe thiab cia siab tias yuav ua tiav. Nws yuav zoo, tab sis nws tsis ua haujlwm. Thawj lub lim tiam lossis yog li ntawd, koj yuav tsum ua nrog lawv. Ua qauv qhia txhua kauj ruam rau lawv nrog cov lus qhia meej, yooj yim. Piv txwv li, koj cov tub rog khoom ua si mus ntawm no, thiab koj cov bears mus saum koj lub txaj. Xav txog muab cov lus qhia rau lawv txog txoj hauv kev yooj yim los ua lub txaj lossis txoj hauv kev nrawm los txheeb lawv pawg.
Nkauj, qhuas, qhuas
Cov menyuam yaus noj qab haus huv thiab qhuas. Yog li ntawd, muab rau lawv los ntawm kev sib tham thiab luag ua ke. Ua raws li qhov tshwm sim hauv lawv lub neej. Ua kom huv si lub sijhawm sib raug zoo thiab muaj kev paub zoo thiab nws yuav ua rau txhua qhov sib txawv.
Tsim Kev Cia Siab
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau npaj qhov kev cia siab thaum pib. Npaj cov lus qhia meej rau qhov koj xav tau thiab qhov tshwm sim rau qhov tsis ua raws li qhov kev cia siab. Piv txwv li, yog lawv tsis tuaj yeem ntxuav lawv cov khoom ua si, lawv tsis tuaj yeem ua si nrog lawv.
Saib Chav
Saib lawv chav kom paub tseeb tias lawv ua tau raws li koj qhov kev cia siab. Qhuas tej yam uas lawv tau ua tau zoo nrog tsib lub siab thiab "ua haujlwm txaus" kom lawv paub tias koj muaj nuj nqis rau lawv cov kev siv zog. Yog tias koj pom ib yam dab tsi uas xav tau kev txhim kho, pab lawv txheeb xyuas nws tsis yog thuam lawv. Piv txwv li, nws yuav zoo li "Kuv Spy" game lossis qee yam zoo sib xws. Nws yuav lom zem thaum koj ua nws ua si.
Ntxiv ntau yam haujlwm raws li xav tau
Pib nrog cov kauj ruam me me yog qhov tseem ceeb kom ua tiav kom cov menyuam tuaj yeem ntxuav lawv chav. Tab sis raws li lawv qhia koj tias lawv tuaj yeem ua tau, koj tuaj yeem pib ua haujlwm ntxiv. Koj tuaj yeem ntxiv cov ntawv ntxhua khaub ncaws (rau cov menyuam yaus) lossis nqa cov khaub ncaws qias neeg mus rau chav ntxhua khaub ncaws rau hauv daim ntawv teev npe. Lub koom haum system uas koj siv kuj tuaj yeem nce qhov tsis sib xws. Piv txwv li, koj tuaj yeem ntxiv cov khoom faib hauv koj lub thawv rau cov khoom tshwj xeeb es tsis yog muab tso ua ke.
Thaum koj ua haujlwm, koj kuj tuaj yeem nce nqi zog thiab. Tsis yog siab tsib thiab "ua haujlwm zoo," koj tuaj yeem pib muab nyiaj pub dawb rau lawv lossis ib teev ntxiv ntawm cov ntsiav tshuaj. Qhov no yuav pab cov menyuam kawm txog qhov muaj txiaj ntsig ntawm kev ua haujlwm thiab txhawb lawv lub luag haujlwm rau lawv tus kheej txoj kev vam meej.
Ua raws li qhov khoom plig thiab qhov tshwm sim
Cov menyuam feem coob yuav tsis xav ntxuav lawv chav tshwj tsis yog lawv nyiam ntxuav. Thiab thaum xub thawj, tej zaum koj yuav tau txais me ntsis backlash. Ua raws li koj qhov khoom plig thiab qhov tshwm sim. Piv txwv li:
- Nco ntsoov xyuas lawv cov chav thiab muab khoom plig.
- Ua raws li qhov tshwm sim.
- Nco ntsoov qhuas lawv.
- Ntev yam uas lawv nyiam, xws li lub sijhawm ntsiav tshuaj lossis TV, kom txog thaum lawv chav huv si.
Txoj Kev Qhia Cov Me Nyuam Los Ntxuav Lawv Chav
Qhov pib yog ntxhib. Kev ntxuav yog kev lom zem zoo nkauj rau lawv thaum koj pab, tab sis thaum lawv yuav tsum pib ua lawv tus kheej, qhov whining pib. Txhawm rau lo rau koj rab phom, sim ua ob peb lub tswv yim ua kom koj lub siab huv.
- Muab kev pab rau lawv thaum xav tau.
- Ua kev lom zem. Ntxiv suab paj nruag los yog ua kom zoo li cov khoom muaj nqis yos hav zoov los txheeb cov khoom hauv pem teb.
- Ua kev tu tsev neeg. Thaum lawv ntxuav lawv chav, koj ua cov tais diav lossis ntxuav ib yam dab tsi.
- Siv pob tawb los pab lawv txheeb. Ua li ntawd, lawv tsuas tuaj yeem nqa ib qho nrog lawv mus rau txhua qhov chaw.
- Tau ua haujlwm rau koj cov menyuam. Qee cov menyuam yaus muaj kev saib xyuas tsawg. Yog li tej zaum tsuas muaj 2-feeb kev, thiab lwm yam.
- Muab cov lus qhia meej thiab kev cia siab.
- Tsis txhob ua tsis meej txog tej lus qhia.
Thaum Hnub Nyoog Kawg Cov Me Nyuam Yuav Pib Ntxuav Lawv Chav?
Tsis muaj hnub nyoog kub uas cov menyuam tuaj yeem pib ntxuav lawv chav. Cov menyuam yaus tuaj yeem pib pab koj khaws lawv chav. Cov me nyuam nyob ib puag ncig lub hnub nyoog pre-kindergarten tuaj yeem pib ua cov haujlwm yooj yim ib leeg thiab ntxuav chav hauv ib lub lim tiam nrog kev pab me me. Feem ntau, nyob ib ncig ntawm 7 lossis 8, tus menyuam yaus yuav tsum tuaj yeem ntxuav lawv chav txhua hnub ntawm lawv tus kheej, suav nrog muab txhua yam tseg. Tus yau koj pib lawv ntxuav thiab piav qhia kev tu kom huv, yooj yim dua lawv yuav ua haujlwm.
Yuav Ua Li Cas Kom Cov Menyuam Los Ntxuav Chav Nrog Yooj Yim
Koj tuaj yeem co koj niam lossis txiv ua khawv koob txhua yam koj xav tau, tab sis koj tus menyuam yuav tsis zoo siab txog kev ntxuav lawv chav. Kev ua haujlwm thiab lub luag haujlwm tshem tawm ntawm kev ua si thiab kev lom zem ua si. Tab sis kev qhia kom lawv ntxuav lawv chav yuav ua rau lawv muaj lub luag haujlwm ntau dua thaum lawv loj hlob tuaj. Tsuas yog nco ntsoov ua kom lom zem thaum ua tau, ua kom nws zoo, thiab ua tib zoo.
