No.
No way. Tsis tshwm sim. Nooooope.
Cov niam txiv tej zaum yuav hais lo lus "tsis yog" ntau dua li lawv hais lwm lo lus. Tam sim no, nws tsis zoo li niam thiab txiv tau teeb tsa los ua tus rhuav tshem cov menyuam txoj kev npau suav thiab kev npau suav nrog cov ntawv tas li, tus ntsuj plig tsoo ob tsab ntawv. Nws tsuas yog hais tias cov menyuam yaus nug txog peb lab cov lus nug hauv ib hnub, nrog rau feem ntau ntawm cov kev thov no ua tsis tau zoo lossis ua tsis tau. Cov niam txiv pheej hais tias "tsis yog" ib zaug ntxiv. Tom qab tag nrho, nws yog qhov tseeb; thiab nws xaus kev thov, qw, thiab kev sib tham ib tug me nyuam tau txiav txim siab tawm tsam txog kev noj ice cream rau pluas tshais.
Tab sis ua li cas yog tias tsuas yog ib hnub xwb, tag nrho cov noes tau hloov nrog lo lus "yog?"
Yog Hnub twg?
A Yes Day yog thaum cov niam txiv ua lawv qhov darndest hais tias yog rau lawv cov menyuam qhov kev thov. Thaum cov me nyuam nug txog ib yam dab tsi, cov niam txiv luag ntxhi, dais nws, thiab pab lawv ntau lub siab nyiam. Txoj kev xav ntawm Yes Hnub yuav pib nrog xyoo 2009 me nyuam phau ntawv "Yes Hnub!" los ntawm Amy Krouse Rosenthal. Lub tswv yim tau dhau los ua neeg paub ntau ntxiv thiab nrov nrog cov neeg ua yeeb yam Jennifer Garner piav qhia nws yuav ua li cas nws muab nws cov menyuam rau hnub Yes Xus txhua xyoo.
Txhob Cia Siab Rau Hnub Caiv
Muaj Ib Hnub tsis tau txhais hais tias koj dheev dhau los ua ib tug genie nyob rau hauv lub raj mis, muab tej qub qus xav kom koj cov xeeb ntxwv conjure. Thaum Muaj Hnub suav nrog ntau qhov muaj ntau dua li qhov tsis muaj, tsim kom muaj ib thaj tsam meej thiab cov lus qhia yuav ua rau kev mob siab rau txhua tus.
Plan Hnub Ua Ntej
Hnub Yes Xus yuav tsum tau siv sij hawm ntau dua li lub sij hawm zoo nrog cov me nyuam, yog li kos tawm ib hnub uas koj tsis tas yuav muaj nyob rau lwm qhov. Yog tias koj tab tom tuav Yes Hnub rau ib hnub ua hauj lwm, muab hnub so haujlwm. Yog Hnub Yes Xus poob rau hnub so, thaiv ib hnub thiab tso tseg koj txoj hauj lwm thiab kev cog lus kom koj thiaj li mob siab rau tag nrho ib hnub los ua kev npau suav.
Npaj rau ntau yam thov
Yog Hnub rau ib tug me nyuam yuav zoo li txawv kiag li rau lwm tus menyuam hauv tsev neeg. Yog tias koj muaj tsev neeg Yog Hnub, xyuas kom cov menyuam ua haujlwm ua ke los sau lawv cov lus thov. Nws yuav dhau los ua tsis yooj yim sua kom muaj kev thov sib txawv los ntawm koj los ntawm txhua tus menyuam yaus. Xav txog kev tso cai rau txhua tus me nyuam peb "yog xav tau," lossis kom txhua tus menyuam xaiv noj mov, ua haujlwm, thiab tawm mus ua haujlwm rau hnub Yes Xus. Lwm qhov kev xaiv yog muaj Yes Hnub rau ib tug me nyuam ib zaug. Tshaj tawm Yes Hnub tawm kom koj muaj sij hawm rov qab los ntawm ib qho ua ntej mus rau lwm qhov.
Txoj kev txwv nyiaj txiag
Tsuas yog vim koj tuav Yes Xus tsis tau txhais hais tias koj tau txais nyiaj tam sim ntawd. Cov menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem nug koj txog kev mus ncig ua si rau Disney World ntawm Yes Hnub. Muaj tseeb tiag, tej zaum koj yuav tau rho tawm qee qhov nyiaj ntxiv rau kev noj mov, mus ncig ua si ntawm Target, lossis kev xauj yeeb yaj kiab, tab sis cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum muaj lub tswv yim meej txog qhov ua tau nyiaj txiag thiab dab tsi tsis yog. Ib Hnub Yes Xus yuav tsum tsis txhob rhuav lub txhab nyiaj, thiab yuav tsum tsis txhob rhuav koj tus ntsuj plig. Lub hom phiaj yog tsev neeg lom zem, tsis yog nyiaj txiag puas tsuaj.
Ua kom cov kev thov muaj txiaj ntsig
Qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau cov menyuam yaus uas tseem muaj kev ntseeg hauv kev ua khawv koob thiab xav tsis thoob. Tsis txhob lom zem thov ntawm cov noob taum khawv koob, unicorns, lossis kev sib ntsib zais cia thiab tos txais Santa Claus. Rau cov menyuam yaus loj, ciam teb yuav suav nrog sijhawm txwv rau kev siv tshuaj ntsuam, hom yeeb yaj kiab uas tuaj yeem saib tau, lossis ntau npaum li cas qab zib lossis cov khoom noj tsis zoo tau muab tso rau hauv Yes Xus noj.
Set Physical Boundaries and Limitations
Koj cov menyuam yuav hais kom koj caij tsheb mus rau hnub Yes Xus. Nco ntsoov, koj yog tus tsav tsheb; koj hu cov txhaj tshuaj thaum nws los txog rau Yes Day outings. Tsis txhob xav tias koj yuav tsum tau tsav ib puas mais rau qhov hais tias yog. Yog tias cov menyuam yaus xav pom Yawg lossis cov phooj ywg uas nyob sab nraum nroog rau lawv Hnub Yes Xus, sib tham seb qhov no yuav ua tsis tau vim qhov deb. Yog tias koj ua rau Yes Xus txoj kev npau suav ntev ntev los ua qhov tseeb, piav qhia rau cov me nyuam tias txoj kev taug kev yuav txhais tau tias kev txi lwm yam ua Yes Xus ua si.
Make a suggestion List
Qee zaum dheev hais tias yog rau txhua yam cuam tshuam rau menyuam yaus. Nyob rau hauv lawv lub neej niaj hnub, lawv paub tias lawv ua tau dab tsi thiab ua tsis tau, yog li thaum nws los txog rau kev ua ub no, lawv nyob hauv lub rooj zaum dav dav. Thaum Yes Hnub rolls ib ncig, lawv yuav siv sij hawm ntau los sim xav txog cov tswv yim ingenious uas tsis yog yuav ua rau lawv. Ua ib daim ntawv qhia tswv yim rau cov me nyuam xaiv los yuav txuag tau qee lub sij hawm nyob rau hnub tshwj xeeb no. suav nrog cov lus qhia rau kev ua ub no, tawm mus, thiab noj mov. Qee lub tswv yim yuav yog:
- Ice cream los yog lwm yam khoom noj rau noj hmo
- Tawm mus noj mov tshwj xeeb rau pluas tshais, pluas su, lossis noj hmo
- Tsim ib pluag mov qab uas tus menyuam nyiam noj
- Tseem tau mus ncig ua si rau hnub
- Nkauj tawm mus rau lub vaj tsiaj, kev ncaj ncees hauv zos, chaw ua si, chaw ua si lossis puam
- Qhia cov phooj ywg los yog tsev neeg tuaj xyuas koj hnub Yes Xus
- Muab tswv yim rau khoom siv tes ua, tsos, thiab ua si ua si
- Mus caij tsheb kauj vab, cov menyuam skating, sledding, surfing, los yog ua tej yam lom zem thiab nquag
- Qhia kom pw tsaug zog tag nrho tsev neeg, nrog cov nus muag, hauv tsev neeg chav, los yog mus pw tom hav zoov
Cov txiaj ntsig ntawm Muaj Ib Hnub
Muaj Hnub Yug tuaj yeem ua rau qaug zog, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau cov menyuam yaus muaj tswv yim uas yuav thov lub hli, tsis hais txog thaj tsam thiab kev txwv. Txawm hais tias lub zog ntawm Yes Hnub yuav xav tau los ntawm cov neeg laus, tuav ib hnub zoo li no muaj ntau yam txiaj ntsig rau menyuam yaus thiab cov neeg laus ib yam nkaus.
Rau cov menyuam yaus, Hnub Yes Xus txhais tau hais tias muab lub cib fim rau cov me nyuam kom muaj tej yam ua nrog lawv, tsis yog rau lawv. Lawv tuav txoj kev ywj pheej los txiav txim siab rau lawv tus kheej thiab ua lawv txoj kev npaj yam tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam rau cov neeg laus. Hnub Yes Xus tso cai rau cov me nyuam muaj tswv yim nrog lawv lub sij hawm, qhia txog kev ua ub ua no los yog noj mov uas tej zaum yuav tsis ua hauj lwm hauv lub neej.
Cov niam txiv kuj tau txais txiaj ntsig los ntawm Yes Hnub. Lawv tau so los ntawm kev teem sijhawm dhau mus, los ntawm kev npau suav txog zaub mov thiab kev ua ub no, los ntawm kev sib tham thiab sib cav nrog cov menyuam yaus txog qhov lawv ua tau thiab ua tsis tau. Ib Hnub Yes Xus yuav yog ib qho kev paub zoo rau cov niam txiv, tsis yog rau cov me nyuam xwb. Ib Hnub Yes Xus muab txoj hauv kev rau cov neeg zov me nyuam tso tawm ntawm micromanaging thiab cov txheej txheem uas lawv nyiam poob rau hauv.
Memorializing Yes Day
Tig koj Yes Xus mus ua ib tse neeg ib xyoos ib zaug. Xyuas kom tseeb tias koj ua haujlwm lub tswv yim lom zem no rau hauv koj tsev neeg kab lis kev cai los ntawm kev hwm nws hauv txoj kev tshiab txhua xyoo. Nqa ntau cov duab ntawm koj qhov kev lom zem Yes Hnub thiab muab tso rau hauv ib phau ntawv, ntxiv cov duab tshiab thiab nplooj ntawv txhua xyoo uas koj ua kev zoo siab Yes Hnub.
