Kev npaj mus pib dua lwm xyoo ntawm tsev kawm theem siab tuaj yeem yog qhov sib npaug zoo siab thiab txaus ntshai. Cov no yog xyoo kawg ntawm kev kawm ua ntej cov menyuam yaus nthuav lawv tis thiab ya ntawm lawv tus kheej. Thaum cov tub ntxhais hluas paub tseeb tias lawv paub txhua yam, thiab txhua yam yog nyob rau hauv kev tswj hwm, cov niam txiv paub zoo dua. Cov 12 cov lus qhia rov qab mus rau tsev kawm theem siab no yuav ua kom koj tus tub ntxhais hluas raug teeb tsa rau xyoo ua tiav.
Raising Teens: A Precarious Balance
Nco ntsoov thaum sawv daws hais rau koj tias cov me nyuam xyoo no yog dais, thiab lawv yuav nyuaj tshaj plaws uas koj yuav ntsib hauv koj txoj kev ua niam ua txiv? Cov neeg ntawd dag koj. Cov tub ntxhais hluas xyoo yog qhov tsis txaus ntseeg rau ntau leej niam thiab txiv. Koj cov menyuam nyob ze rau kev loj hlob thiab muaj kev ywj pheej, tab sis lawv tseem yuav tsum tau loj hlob, coj, thiab saib xyuas. Thaum lawv xav tias lawv muaj tsev kawm ntawv theem siab hauv lub hnab, cov neeg laus paub tias kev teeb tsa cov tub ntxhais hluas kom ua tiav xyoo kawm ntawv tshiab yog qhov tseem ceeb thiab nyuaj. 12 cov lus qhia rov qab mus rau tsev kawm ntawv theem siab no yuav ua rau koj tus hluas nyob rau hauv txoj kev mus rau kev vam meej, tsis ua rau lawv xav tias koj tab tom me me los yog micro tswj lawv txhua qhov kev txav mus los.
Qhia Teenagers Muaj Peev Xwm Txheej Txheem Ua Haujlwm
Yog koj puas tau pom ib tug hluas nkauj laib ces koj yeej paub tias lub koom haum no tsis yog lawv lub cev muaj zog heev. Yuav kom muaj kev vam meej hauv xyoo kawm ntawv tshiab, koj tus menyuam kawm ntawv theem siab yuav tsum muaj peev xwm npaj lawv lub neej kom zoo. Ua ntej pib lub xyoo kawm ntawv tshiab, sib tham txog cov txheej txheem ntawm kev npaj ib tug neeg hnub. Xav txog cov phiaj xwm hnub, daim ntawv qhia hnub, cov rooj sib tham qhuav qhuav, lossis cov cuab yeej koom ua ke ntawm cov khoom siv ntawm tus kheej los pab koj tus menyuam kawm ntawv theem siab kom tswj hwm lawv qhov tseem ceeb. Tham txog hom hnub kawg, kev teem sijhawm, lossis kev ua kis las uas yuav nkag mus rau hauv daim phiaj xwm lossis daim ntawv qhia hnub. Nyob rau lub lis piam thiab hli ua ntej pib kawm ntawv, xyuas kom cov me nyuam paub yuav ua li cas los tsim kom tau zoo tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv lawv lub luag hauj lwm thiab yuav ua li cas teem caij. Qhov no yog ib qho txuj ci ua neej uas yuav txuas ntxiv mus deb dhau lub xyoo kawm ntawv theem siab.
Know the Go-to People
High tsev kawm ntawv yog lub sijhawm loj! Koj tus menyuam yuav muaj tus kws pab tswv yim thiab ntau tus kws qhia ntawv thiab tus kws qhia uas lawv pom txhua hnub. Cov menyuam kawm ntawv yuav tsum paub tias yuav hu rau leej twg txog dab tsi. Yog tias lawv muaj cov kws qhia, lawv yuav xav tau cov kws qhia 'e-mail lossis xov tooj ncaj qha tiv tauj lawv nrog cov lus nug lossis kev txhawj xeeb uas tshwm sim. Nws tsis yog koj niam txiv lub luag haujlwm rau email tus kws qhia txuj ci thiab tshawb xyuas hnub kawg ntawm qhov project. Nws kuj tsis yog koj txoj hauj lwm kom taug qab seb koj tus tub hluas yuav tsum ua li cas thaum tsis tuaj. Teeb tsa lawv kom ua tiav los ntawm kev ua cov npe ntawm cov kws qhia ntawv thiab cov kws qhia, nrog rau lawv cov ntaub ntawv tiv toj. Tshawb xyuas cov cai tsis tuaj kawm ntawv thiab cov hnub tseem ceeb ntawm cov lus uas tau dhau los hauv cov hnub kawm ntawv thawj zaug. Ua qauv li cas kom paub thiab yuav ua li cas mus txog kev nkag mus thiab xa cov ntaub ntawv.
Qhov no tseem ceeb heev rau cov menyuam yaus thiab cov laus. Tshwj tsis yog lawv npaj yuav coj niam thiab txiv mus kawm ntawv qib siab nrog lawv, lawv yuav tsum paub tias yuav hu rau leej twg nyob rau txhua qhov xwm txheej sib txawv thiab cov cai tsim, lig, thiab tsis tuaj kawm ntawv yog rau TXHUA YAM KHOOM.
Pab Cov Tub Ntxhais Kawm Tsim Cov Txheej Txheem Kawm
Thaum menyuam yaus tseem hluas, niam txiv tsim cov txheej txheem rau lawv. Lawv qhia rau lawv thaum sawv ntxov, thaum twg los noj mov, thaum twg mus npaj mus kawm ntawv, thiab thaum twg yuav tsum tau ua cov ntawv tom tsev. Cov tub ntxhais hluas yuav tsum muaj peev xwm tsim cov kev kawm raws li txoj hauv kev kom thaum lawv tawm mus rau hauv lub ntiaj teb ob peb xyoos, lawv tuaj yeem tswj hwm txhua yam uas lawv xav tau. Thaum cov tub ntxhais kawm tau txais lawv cov chav kawm thiab lawv cov sij hawm, pab lawv teeb tsa txoj kev kawm. Tsim qhov chaw nyob rau yav tav su thiab yav tsaus ntuj kom mob siab rau kev kawm. Txiav txim siab seb cov kev kawm twg yuav xav tau sijhawm ntxiv, thiab pab cov tub ntxhais hluas tuaj txog ntawm cov lus xaus txog kev hloov qee qhov kev ua si lom zem nrog lub luag haujlwm ntawm kev kawm. Tshawb nrhiav cov sijhawm kawm thiab cov kws qhia ntawv muaj peev xwm yog tias lawv xav tau ntawm qee lub sijhawm.
Tshaj Tawm Tsev Kawm Ntawv Cov Zej Zog
Lub xyoo kawm ntawv tshiab muaj ntau lub koom haum sib txawv, pab pawg, thiab kev ua kis las uas cov hluas tuaj yeem koom nrog. Ntau lub koom haum piav qhia tawm thaum kawg ntawm lub caij ntuj sov lossis thaum pib lub caij nplooj zeeg. Koom tes nrog koj tus menyuam kawm ntawv theem siab los nrhiav qee pawg uas yuav txaus siab rau lawv. Kev xav zoo li ib feem ntawm pab pawg yog qhov tseem ceeb rau kev sib raug zoo ntawm ntau tus menyuam. Thaum cov tub ntxhais hluas xyoo tuaj yeem xav tias nyob ib leeg, lawv tuaj yeem ua tiav thaum ua ke nrog phooj ywg, cov phooj ywg hauv chav kawm, thiab cov kws qhia. Cov tub ntxhais hluas tuaj yeem ua kom muaj txiaj ntsig kev sib txuas nrog cov tib neeg lub siab nyiam uas muaj kev nyiam zoo sib xws los ua kom lawv cov xyoo kawm ntawv qib siab zoo dua.
Tsim Lub Rooj Sib Tham Nrog Tus Kws Pab Tswv Yim Qhia
Yog tias koj muaj cov tub ntxhais kawm tshiab lossis tseem kawm qib kaum ob, xyoo kawm ntawv qib siab tseem tuaj yeem zoo li mais deb. Qhov tseeb yog, plaub xyoos ntawm tsev kawm ntawv theem siab mus nrawm nrawm, thiab koj yuav xav kom koj tus menyuam kawm ntawv theem siab rau txoj hauv kev zoo rau lawv cov xyoo kawm ntawv qib siab tam sim ntawd. Koj thiab koj tus menyuam yuav tsum teeb tsa lub rooj sib tham nrog tus kws pab tswv yim hauv tsev kawm los tham txog cov phiaj xwm tom qab tsev kawm theem siab. Tau kawg, cov hom phiaj thiab kev cia siab yuav hloov pauv tsis tu ncua thoob plaws hauv tsev kawm theem siab (thiab tsev kawm qib siab ntxov) xyoo, tab sis paub txog cov chav kawm koj yuav tsum kawm tiav thiab tsiv mus rau cov tsev kawm ntawv qib siab yav tom ntej yog txoj hauv kev zoo los pib xyoo kawm ntawv tshiab.
Kawm Qhov Tseem Ceeb Ntawm Kev Noj Qab Haus Huv
Muaj ib zaug, koj, niam txiv, tau hais txhua yam khoom noj uas nkag mus rau hauv koj tus menyuam lub cev. Tam sim no lawv yog cov hluas, koj txoj kev kav ua vaj ntxwv lossis poj huab tais ntawm Fridge tau tas lawm. Cov tub ntxhais hluas zoo siab muaj lub ntiaj teb cov khoom noj txom ncauj thiab cov khoom noj tsis zoo ntawm lawv lub ntsis ntiv tes, tab sis lawv tseem yuav tsum tau qhia qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev noj qab haus huv. Thaum lawv nkag mus rau xyoo kawm ntawv tshiab, tsis txhob qhia lawv noj dab tsi rau pluas tshais, khoom noj txom ncauj thiab noj su, tab sis pab lawv kom nkag siab tias lawv cov kev xaiv zaub mov cuam tshuam li cas, thiab lawv tuaj yeem txiav txim siab noj zaub mov zoo li cas los txhawb lawv lub siab thiab lub cev.
Ua ke, nrhiav ob peb yam yooj yim, noj qab nyob zoo zaub mov uas cov hluas tuaj yeem qhia ua rau lawv tus kheej. Muab lawv txoj kev ywj pheej los ua cov tswv yim ua noj. Pab lawv suav nrog cov npe ntawm cov khoom xyaw, thiab taug kev los ntawm kev npaj zaub mov rau lawv tus kheej.
Qhia Kom Lawv Txaus Siab Rau Txoj Kev Taug Kev, Tsis yog Cia Siab Rau Qhov Kawg
Rau qee cov tub ntxhais hluas, tsev kawm ntawv theem siab yog ib txoj hauv kev kom tau mus kawm ntawv qib siab thiab ua tiav lawv txoj haujlwm npau suav. Lawv tau ntes tau nyob rau hauv qhov kawg tshwm sim uas lawv yeej tsis txaus siab rau caij. Pab koj tus menyuam kawm ntawv theem siab kom nkag siab tias lub neej yog hais txog kev nyob hauv lub sijhawm thiab txaus siab rau cov txheej txheem; Nws tsis yog tsuas yog sim mus txog qhov kawg nkaus xwb.
Qhia khoom siv
Koj puas yog niam txiv ntawm ib tug tub hluas yog koj tsis tau hnov cov lus, "Niam, Kuv xav tau phau ntawv ntshav rau tag kis," thaum 11 teev tsaus ntuj. hmo ua ntej? Cov tub ntxhais hluas muaj npe nrov rau kev xav tias lawv tau tshawb xyuas tag nrho cov khoom ntim khoom thaum pib lub xyoo tshiab, tsuas yog pom lawv poob luv. Ua tsaug rau lawv uas tau sim ua kom tau txhua yam raws li kev txiav txim ua ntej hnub ib lub tsev kawm ntawv, tab sis raws li niam txiv, koj tseem yuav xav tau ob zaug tshuaj xyuas lawv cov npe khoom thiab xyuas kom lawv muaj txhua yam lawv xav tau los tsoo hauv av.
Ntxawm Nuj Nplhaib Catches the Bus
Yog hais txog koj tus menyuam kawm ntawv siab, lawv yuav tsaug zog txog 1 p.m., pw ntawm 3, thiab nyob hauv qhov tsaus ntuj tshaj plaws ntawm koj lub tsev, tsuas yog nkag mus rau zaub mov lossis nug qhov chaw taws teeb nyob qhov twg. Hnub kawm ntawv theem siab pib vwm ntxov, uas cuam tshuam rau koj tus menyuam txoj kev nyiam pw ib nrab hnub. Tsis txhob xav tias koj yuav teeb lub tswb rau hnub ua ntej tsev kawm ntawv pib thiab tau txais tos los ntawm tus neeg kawm ntawv qib siab tshiab nyob rau thawj hnub ntawm tsev kawm ntawv. Pib koom nrog kev hu xov tooj rau lub caij ntuj sov rov qab rau hauv lawv lub sijhawm tsawg kawg ib lub lis piam ua ntej tsev kawm ntawv pib; yog li thaum thawj hnub ntawm tsev kawm ntawv los txog, koj tus tub hluas tau siv sijhawm los sawv ntxov.
Qhia kev txhawj xeeb
Qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau cov tub ntxhais kawm tshiab lossis cov tub ntxhais hluas tshiab hauv tsev kawm theem siab. Lub tsev kawm ntawv theem siab koj tus menyuam tuaj kawm yog qhov loj tshaj plaws hauv tsev kawm ntawv uas lawv tau ntsib. Nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau xav txog lawv taug kev tsis muaj qhov kawg, winding halls nyob rau hauv kev tshawb fawb ntawm lawv ob-teev chav kawm ntawv, tag nrho nyob rau hauv lub ncua sij hawm ntawm tsib feeb dhau lub sij hawm. Yog tias ua tau, saib seb koj tus menyuam puas tuaj yeem mus ncig lub tsev (nrog sijhawm teem sijhawm hauv tes) ua ntej thawj hnub. Tej zaum lawv yuav tsis xav kom koj mus ncig nrog lawv, tab sis tsis ua li cas. Koj tuaj yeem zaum hauv qhov chaw nres tsheb, ua kom rov qab los thaum koj xav txog koj tus menyuam poob rau hauv qhov chaw loj loj.
Muaj feem muaj, los ntawm kev mus ncig hauv tsev kawm theem siab, koj thiab koj tus menyuam yuav yooj yim nrog kev taug kev lawv qhov chaw tshiab rau hnub ib.
Ua Tsaug Rau Koj Tus Hluas
Lub neej tsis khoom; thiab cov tsev neeg bustling zoo li txav mus rau ntau qhov kev qhia txhua lub sijhawm. Nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau teem sijhawm los txuas nrog koj cov tub ntxhais hluas, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum lawv cov lus teb rau koj cov lus nug uas kub hnyiab yog cov kab lus xws li, "Zoo," thiab "Zoo," thiab "Kuv tsis paub."
Nyob rau hauv thawj hnub ua ntej mus rau thawj hnub ntawm high school thiab lub lis piam tom qab, nyob ib ncig ntawm. Nco ntsoov nug koj cov menyuam tias yuav ua li cas mus, lawv muaj teeb meem dab tsi, lawv nyiam dab tsi, thiab lawv tsis nyiam. Paub thaum lawv tab tom nrhiav kev pab thiab thaum lawv tab tom nrhiav lub suab nrov. Muaj nyob rau hauv cov tub ntxhais hluas xyoo, thiab kawm paub yuav ua li cas mloog koj tus menyuam kom zoo, yog lub hauv paus tseem ceeb rau kev loj hlob koj txoj kev sib raug zoo thiab hloov pauv mus ib txhis.
Nco ntsoov
Tsis txhob dag. Kev koom tes hauv koj tus menyuam qhov kev paub hauv tsev kawm theem siab tsis yog hais tias koj yuav tsum tswj lub nkoj kom tiav thiab dhau los ua niam txiv snowplow lossis niam txiv nyoob hoom qav taub. Nws tau hais tias koj yuav tsum koom nrog qee yam ntawm lawv qhov kev kawm hluas. Nyeem tag nrho cov tsev kawm ntawv email uas tuaj txog koj txoj kev. Mus koom kev ua yeeb yam, concerts, kos duab, thiab kev sib tw kis las uas koj tus menyuam yog ib feem ntawm. Paub koj tus menyuam cov phooj ywg thiab lawv niam lawv txiv, thiab mloog koj lub pob ntseg. Koj tsis tas yuav ua haujlwm hauv tsev kawm ntawv lub tsev noj mov lossis tus thawj coj txhua tus seev cev thiab tawm koj tus tub hluas mus, tab sis koj yuav xav kom muaj qee lub tswv yim ntawm lawv lub neej zoo li sab nraum koj plaub phab ntsa.
High School Years are Roller Coaster Years
Yog tias koj muaj nyiaj duas las rau txhua qhov kev xav hloov, theem, thiab nce thiab nqis uas koj tus tub hluas yuav ntsib thaum kawm ntawv theem siab, koj yuav nplua nuj tshaj li koj txoj kev npau suav phem tshaj plaws. Cov tub ntxhais hluas xyoo yog kev caij tsheb qus, kom paub tseeb, thiab txawm tias cov neeg ua haujlwm zoo tshaj plaws pom lawv tus kheej nrhiav cov lus teb thaum nws los txog rau niam txiv lawv cov tub ntxhais kawm theem siab. Paub tias qhov nce thiab nqis yuav los tiag. Txhawb nqa raws li koj muaj peev xwm ua tau, thiab ua qhov zoo tshaj plaws los txhim kho koj tus menyuam kom muaj kev vam meej thaum pib ntawm txhua xyoo.
